Why don't males ever grow up?

Why don't males ever grow up? Why do they stay selfish childish little kids forever?
and If they aren't going to grow up why did God instill something in us that makes us want them? I do not want to associate with or be in a relationship with a selfish little kid I deal with enough of those at school. You can look at any male in your life and if you want to put emotions aside and think logically for a minute even the males we love like our dads and brothers are big babies and our sister in laws and mothers which are their wives become their mothers at some point in life. Its actually pretty sad when a woman thinks of marriage you think of having a family and having someone to take care and support you but instead you end up taking care of a big huge selfish baby! plus any other kids you might also have. That is so incredibly annoying times like this I wish I liked women too bad I don't! I know that no one is perfect and all that jazz but I seriously believed there was someone perfect for everyone in the world. I'm at a point where I'm starting to believe I'm either the exception to that rule or it is just not true! They are selfish about emotions, physical relationships, hobbies, food, and pretty much everything else that exists. If its not their way or doesn't make them happy then you'll get a mean temper tantrum yes you heard it TEMPER TANTRUM just like a 3 year old. The funny thing about it all is that their first argument every time is I'm not a baby I'm a MAN haha well actually YOU ARE A BABY! So in conclusion All males are babies, they will never grow up, and they are very selfish those are three facts every woman must either accept to be with one or reject and stay single forever! Not sure which one I'm choosing yet which one will you choose?

Its So Amazing How Something So Small and Stupid Could Get to you!

It so amazing how something stupid and small could get to you and ruin your day. I work at an elementary school. Before working here I thought extremely highly of teachers and educators in general Growing up in an academia loving household which holds great respect for educators and having parents who have also been educators themselves also probably has something to do with it and I guess as a child you think the world of your teacher and you can't possibly imagine her to do any wrong especially when ur an elementary student, but after working here for almost two years I have realized that Teachers are nothing extraordinary they are just normal people like everyone else overworked, over stressed, underpaid, and some are even socially inappropriate, and they have imperfections and make mistakes just like the rest of the people. I'm generally a very calm, friendly and happy person. I smile a lot and can get a long with just about anybody (trust me if u met some of these people I work with you would believe me) So just now I was just walking down the hallway minding my own business and this ignorant teacher stopped me in the hall way very socially inappropriate, rudely, and akwardly asked me Do you EVER SMILE? I was shocked but my response was very calm and civil I smiled softly and replied only Always and kept on walking. But the more I think about it now that I'm back at my desk the more rude and innapropriate her comment to me was. I could have been equally rude and innappropriate and said something back to her like a million things I've come up with in the past 15 minutes like: NO I'm not getting paid to smile at mentally unstable people like u all day, or No I choose to frown and look like you, or just laughed at her and said ha ha Get a life, or have you ever Minded your own Business?, or a million other things I could have said and didn't... Why? Why do people do that? Haven't they been taught If you can't say anything nice SHUT THE F UP AND DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL?? Hello we work at a school I must have told my students that a million times this year alone! Its kinda sad that an old woman would behave this way... I think everytime I meet someone who is so socially akward my standards for my students lower ...b/c if this is their educator what can I truely expect from the product of her teachings?? wow! Thats all I can say!
Sometimes its ridiculous how difficult it is to not let something so small get to you!!!

You just don't understand me! Well guess what you don't either!

Why is it that when a guy tries really hard and chases you for a long time like 7 years and then they finally get you to a point where u are like u know what maybe this could work maybe I do like you maybe we should try this out and you give them a chance and decide you like them then u decide you love them. All of a sudden you aren't worth the chase anymore it feels like they only want you when they can't have you or they only want you when u don't want them and when you want them they kinda get over trying to make you happy or impressing you or trying to get you. That is so annoying! Also why is it that when you say something to a guy (this is mostly for 30 year old guys and older) and you get upset at something they say or something they are or are not doing for you they always play the "you don't understand me" card which is the whole spill about you need to understand me u need to understand my situation my life is different...bla bla bla SORRY BUT ALL that is BULL. When is it your damn turn to understand me??? When will u understand me? thats what I want to know! Why is it that everytime I'm upset its me not understanding you there is no possibility that you are not understanding me? Or better yet can't it just be that YOU ARE WRONG! hmm there is something to think about... maybe its because u could be wrong! and YOU ARE! ... UNDERSTAND THAT WHY DON'T YOU!????????!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why can't we just be content with where we're at?

Why can't we just be content in our relationships?

Why do women have to put a title on everything? Why do I need to know so bad what my title is am I his girlfriend? or his friend? Maybe we are somewhere in between? why am I not OK with just being in between? I want to either be the girlfriend or just a friend! You know I wish I was ok with just not having a title! Like guys are! Why do we women always have to screw up something good just because we want to be on one side or the other?... We all know guys are generally uncomfortable and afraid of the word commitment yet we tend to do it every time! Even when things are going great we still want to know how serious it is or what he considers us as... where do I stand with you? I asked ... One of the dumbest questions ever! yet so important for me to know..though I regret asking every time! because if we're friends then he'll think you're into him and want more and back off the friendship... and if he's not ready for the title of something more serious than a friend then he'll choose the friend category which always ruins any potential for anything more because you have already chosen "the friend" side... and if he did want something more asking that question makes you look insecure and unsure of yourself and thats never attractive... so then at that point he doesn't want anything... so you loose every time when u ask that yet we can never resist asking that stupid question which ruins the good thing we've got going which has no name or title EVERY TIME! Gosh I need to stop! and so do all you women out there!

Do People At Your Job Act Professionaly??

I hate it working at a professional place and people around you who claim to be educated and in my case educators... are the ones who need to be educated themselves about acting professional I work at a school and I'm a Speech Therapist unfortunetly I share my office with a bunch of immature people who have a problem with me bringing children and therapy sessions to my room. They are making me feel unwelcome in my own office...HELLO!!! people its my office too. Do I need to teach YOU about sharing TOO? If you don't want to be around kids get a new job you work at a damn elementary school you loosers!!!!!! What bothers me the most is that they do not really do any work they just socialize and my therapy sessions are aparently bothering their social and unwork related loud obnoxious chatting sessions!!! GOSH!! talk about inconvenient... they are totally not thinkin about the kids... why the hell are u a damn teacher you morans!!! GROW UP!

It sucks when you are not the favorite child!

Are you the favorite child? If you are STOP READING NOW! If not then you could probably totally relate. You know what I hate? I hate that I can feel the difference of love distribution amongst the children in my family. It's so funny because my mom thinks that she doesn't treat us differently but she totally does my dad doesn't but my mom does and I find it hilarious that she can't tell she totally treats my sister more special. My sister always gets the jewelry she wants no matter how much it costs, she always gets the best family heirlooms and always gets first dibs on anything we get a choice on. When it comes to me and my brother we just get whats left or whatever the budget allows or whatever my sister does not want. The funny thing is even when something has been given to me its still offered to her as if its not mine already! yeah funny hu? kinda sad actually...It just amazes me that my mom can't tell she enables this. In my house the whole world revolves around my sister. But if we even barely mention it my mom denies it completely and is not even willing to step back and see what she is doing. She always says its because she's the older daughter so she gets to choose first and always choses the best and most valuable thing in the bunch I personally do not think that has anything to do with age she is just my mom's favorite. You know I'm not saying she doesn't deserve the treatment she totally does because she's great and I do love her because she is my sister but I would definitely be lying if I said it didn't bother me, it does bother me infact sometimes it bothers me more than it should. I'm not generally a jealous person and I'm not really jealous of the stuff she gets I think its deeper than that I think I'm jealous of her relationship with my mom and the treatment or attention she gets from her. My mom always asks her opinion and never cares about mine (even though a lot of the time mine is the same or better) and they talk for hours and when I ask whats up or when I come in I'm rarely included if ever! When I ask my mom whats up she always says nothing but when my sister asks she gets all the gossip and bonding and info that is never shared with me first or sometimes at all! and I'm always the last to know anything at my house. I just feel like my mom totally favors her I'm sure my brother feels the same way sometimes. I hate jealousy and I try so hard not to be jelous but like I said its not the materials its deeper its the treatment. I always try to repress my envious feelings of my sister and I just keep these feelings in or cry when I'm alone, it wouldn't be valued or paid attention to if I brought it up they would say I'm being a baby or I'm acting stupid they wouldn't understand anyway. When or if I become a parent some day I'm totally going to be completely aware of the relationship I have with my kids and I'm going to try a lot harder than my mom does to bond with them evenly and fairly.

Confidence Maker? or Confidence Breaker? Which One Are You?

Breaking someone's character and confidence is one of the worst things someone can do to another person. Insulting their Positive and strong character traits is such a horrible thing to do to someone and very uncalled for. What the hell are people thinking? don't you know when you insult someone's strong and what they think are positive character traits what happens? its not going to make them change it its just going to aggrivate them and or make them hate you! Why? Why be a confidence breaker? I actually had someone tell me today that I'm too passionate when I talk about stuff? what the hell is that? UH! HELLO! Last time I checked it was a good thing to be passionate about what you're talking about..because if you're not passionate about something then why the hell talk about it? besides people who speak passionatly about something make it interesting? rather than pe